Here’s what you need to understand:
The reason the woman you care about is losing interest in being with you, is not because you’re flawed as a man, or because you’re not being loving enough to her, but actually — because she feels like you need her. And that just kills her desire for you… regardless if you’ve been talking for 2 weeks or married for 20 years.
Nothing you may have tried until now. Speaking her love languages won’t help. Counseling won’t help — usually makes things worse. Learning attraction tricks from all those seduction gurus will only upset your woman more, and make you look immature.
None of these will ever help, because it’s more try hard. And if she’s already less interested, and you try harder, however you do it — through caring affection, or playing games of attraction… it’s still trying hard. She can still feel that you need her. And it turns her off even more.
So what will help? There's a 4 step process that I teach men to let go of feeling like you NEED a woman, so she can't help but desire you again. Regardless if she's your wife, your ex, an old friend, or a woman you recently met.